welcome to my “tea with tiffany” blog series. basically, i am working on a book called, “tea with tiffany,” and i want to share some of it with you! So…here it goes.
i want you to take out a journal. sit and think about how you spend most of your time? school is an obvious time filler…but what else. sports invites aka practice? sleep overs. dance invites. dinner invites. family invites? make your list as you think about your average week starting with monday and ending with sunday. invitations are more or less a reflection of our choices. that is the invites we accept. based on your list, what are you prioritizing? social media? lol, but seriously. do you ever think of a friend request as an invitation? it is. you are also “invited” or shall we say enticed to look at certain profiles, watch certain music videos or listen to particular playlists. our entire life is made up of invitations. what we let into our world has profound effects on us emotionally, mentally.
do your average invitations cause you anxiety? or do they provide you with a peaceful feeling? think about it if you can’t totally answer it. next time you go to make a plan aka accept an invite? think about how it makes you feel! if it isn’t a good feeling? maybe you should replace that invite with something else. like drawing by yourself in your cozy chair with a cup of tea. or sit and create a playlist that inspires you and makes you feel hopeful and motivated!
i want peace for you. i want you to feel empowered and brave by choosing good invitations. you have the power to say yes or no. own that and let that motivate you knowing these little invites now? will effect big you!